Friday, May 28, 2010

Stress management made easy: An anger management tip

Top stress reducing activities one can find immediately benefit from would include:
Stress is something we all can relate to. For most Americans, it permeates the very fabric of our lives. In today's fast paced society, our jobs, family, and world economy are enough to get even the most relaxed a bit stressed out. Below, I have gathered three simple interventions that anyone can use to start reversing some of the stress in their lives.
1. Getting regular exercise. While this might seem so intuitive, it is often overlooked by so many people. Unless you have a medical condition that prohibits exercise or your doctor says "no", getting exercise has almost instant stress relieving properties. My favorite kind of exercise is anything that is fun! Just make sure its 30 minutes or longer and cardiovascular.
2. Make sure you get enough sleep. Sounds easy right? Not really. Lack of sleep causes irritability and a decrease tolerance to stressors. Most adults need about 7-8 hours a night.
3. Watching what you eat. Most Americans drink way to much caffeine for example. Caffeine is like adding fuel to the fire when we are trying to reduce stress. It mimics the stress response in the body and reduces our ability to tolerate normal situations. By watching our caffeine intake we can greatly reduce the physical and psychological symptoms of stress.
Learning skills in stress management can greatly reduce your risk of becoming "stress out" and misbehaving. Believe it or not, stress and anger go hand in hand. By reducing your stress response and stress management you greatly reduce the risk of losing control with either an out of control temper or mercurial behavior.
Want to learn more about stress management? Most people don't realize that anger management classes teach skills in stress management. Learn more by visiting our websites. Getting stress under control is part educational and part behavioral.

Ari Novick, Ph.D. is Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and a certified anger management provider for both adults and adolescents. Dr. Novick is also an adjunct professor of psychology at Pepperdine University's Graduate School of Education and Psychology. His corporate website is http://www.ajnovickgroup.com and his innovative online anger management class is available at http://www.angerclassonline.com

A Guide to Anger Management Programs - Do you have an anger problem? Find out!

A Guide to Anger Management Classes

As one of the leading anger management providers in the nation, I know how difficult it can be to understand how to choose a quality program. Consumers often don't know how to decide if its time to get help or where to turn. Since anger is not considered a psychological disorder it is often misunderstood. While anger is a completely normal emotion, there are several indicators which might tell you if anger is a problem for you. Here is a quick check list:
1. Do you get angry frequently?
2. Does your anger last longer than you'd like it to?
3. Does your angry behavior adversely affect your relationships at home or at work?
4. Is your anger so intense that you feel out of control?
5. Does your anger scare other people?
If you answer to these questions is yes, then you may want to consider attending an anger management class or take a quality online anger management class. Good classes use a structured curriculum and teach empirically validated skills to help change thinking and behavior. Remember, anger management is a class, and it should not be confused with psychotherapy. These classes can be taken one on one, in a group format or online. The choice really depends on your schedule and budget. Quality programs will teach skills in stress management, empathy, assertive communication, expectation management, forgiveness, improving judgment and impulse control, and improving self-talk.
Don't let anger ruin another important relationship. While anger management has often been stigmatized as "punitive" most people will tell you it is far from what they had imagined. Classes should be a fun, upbeat and educational experience. Get the help you need today!

Ari Novick, Ph.D. is Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and a certified anger management provider for both adults and adolescents. Dr. Novick is also an adjunct professor of psychology at Pepperdine University's Graduate School of Education and Psychology. His corporate website is http://www.ajnovickgroup.com and his innovative online anger management class is available at http://www.angerclassonline.com

Thursday, May 27, 2010

Anger Management Classes and Courses

Deciding to take an anger management class can be daunting. While some people take anger management as part of a court ordered requirement others take these programs for personal growth and self-improvement. Most quality programs are structured like a class and teach skills to participants in a variety of areas. Anger management courses typically involve the attendance of weekly sessions, one on one counseling or coaching, or can even be taken in an online format.
Participants can expect to learn skills in areas like assertive communication, emotional intelligence and empathy, improving judgment and impulse control, stress management, forgiveness and expectation management. Understanding these skills on an intellectual level for most people usually isn't the issue. The primary problem that people have in getting the most out of taking an anger class is actually practicing the skills.
Like any skill based task, repetition is key. Similar to learning how to properly swing a golf club, riding a horse, evening playing chess, practice is the way to master the skill. As the old saying goes, "practice makes perfect". Most quality anger management programs will teach the skills necessary to better stay in control and respond more appropriately, but knowing these skills isn't enough. In order to really master anger, so to speak, we must practice the skill enough times so that it becomes second nature.
An example of this might be learning to be more assertive. Properly asserting ourselves involves several components. First, our body language, tone of voice, volume and eye contact must be congruent with what we are saying. The message must include our feeling and a clear description of what we need the other person to do differently. Sounds easy right? Not unless one practices using proper assertive communication many times.
So in order to get the most out of taking an anger management course, remember, practice these skills as much as possible until they become part of who you are.

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